The misteries of love-1

The misteries of love-1

Normally if you read many book on self motivation or philosoply you can see that it stress to pour our love even to the hatred.some suggest that we need to give our unconditional love to everyone and many books say that if your love is so pure to anyone then you do not expect anything from them. Let us validate if these things are practically feasible.

I accept that love is great and when it is shown to anyone it creates wonders.But we need to know when to show love and when to stop loving because if this is not understood correctly then you may land up in trouble.

You should not stop loving your parents,brothers,sisters because they are the reson for your todays stage. Some time you may get anger on their actions or the way they behave, but remember your parents are living for you, so at any stage do not stop loving them. This area you need to be clear.

Now comming to the most important part. Is unconditional love really possible

Read this carefully

You are going to a college and you got friends there, normally you have lots of love towards your friends of your school/college. During course of time you may go to any picnic/party etc, there your beloved friend may complell you to take liquor out of love and during that time 50% of innocent students do not know what to say. If they say no his friend will tell 'Common da, if your are my friend drink now..' . So the love for your friend makes you to drink liquor now the great love turned to be a poison for you. This sort of love makes your life to lose. So in that situation tell to your friend like this.

"Hi friend, I really love to be with you, i am your friend indeed, but that dosent mean that i have to do whatevey you say, then it means that i am slave to you. The real friendship understand ones feeling and it supports for that.So if you are a real friend of mine, kindly do not compel to take liquor.and from my part as i am real friend i beg you also not to follow this bad habbit, but i wont force you. It is upto you to decide. "

So in this way you can be a good student in college, this will not make you to lose your friends and at the same time will prevent you from being spoiled in  the name of love.

To be continued.....
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